The First Couple

For the first couple marriage bumps in the road are at a different level given the glare of the spotlight and the politicization of everything. The office comes with its drawbacks but also some advantages that will help strengthen their marriage even further.

Good weekend reading from the New York Times...

For all of their ease in public, the Obamas do not seem entirely comfortable with the bargain. As they talked about their marriage, they seemed both game and cautious, the president more introspective about their relationship, the first lady often playing the big sister dispensing advice to younger couples.

Then I asked how any couple can have a truly equal partnership when one member is president.

Michelle Obama gave what sounded like a small, sharp “mmphf” of recognition, and the fluid teamwork of their answers momentarily came to a halt. “Well, first of all. . . .” the president started. His wife peered at him, looking curious as to how he might answer the question. “She’s got. . . .” he began, but then stopped again.

“Well, let me be careful about this,” he said, pausing once more.

To see Michelle's answer to the question, click here to read the full article.